Grade 4 Best practices

For our Grade 4 Best Practices, we've decided on this TQS Standard:

2. h) the importance of respecting students’ human dignity. They know how to establish, with different students, professional relationships that are characterized by mutual respect, trust, and harmony

Since the beginning of this year, many staff (ourselves included) have noticed an attitude of disrespect among our students. We have found ourselves needing many more tools this year to help us handle these challenging situations. We both reflected on things that we do in the classroom and things we would like to do more of. The articles below highlight some key points that we find important and helpful to maintain a positive classroom environment.

How to Get Difficult students to listen

Why you shouldn't have to convince difficult students to behave

Below are some additional practices that we have been implementing this year:

1) Consistency: One of the most important things we can do to is to be consistent with our classroom rules. When challenging behavior is a constant problem it is tempting to sometimes ignore the behavior but there should always be consequences for ignoring the classroom rules.

2) Reset: It is essential to start each day anew. by mentally removing stressful thoughts of the previous day or week. Recharging at home with an activity that gets your mind off the chaos of your day and focusing on something you really enjoy is helpful. This may be difficult to do, but important not just to promote harmony in ourselves as professional teachers, but for the students as well.

3) Calm: It is important to remain calm when you dole out consequences. If a student acts up in class, calmly remind them of their consequence, and continue on with your lesson. This also allows students to know they don't have the leverage or power to get a rise out of you and ruin your day  (some students have learned over time to be very good at this). Try postponing a one-on-one discussion until you are in a calm state of mind where you are not going to lose your temper.

4) Positivity: Focus on encouragement and praise as much as you can. Making sure the child knows they matter to the classroom. Have little chats with your kids as they are coming in or doing work. Make sure it's not about the work itself but about them so they can feel they matter and are noticed. Minimize negative interactions and maximize the positive ones.

5) Community: As teachers, we need to remind ourselves that we do not work in isolation. We have a community of team members that include other teachers, EAs, support staff, and administrators.
As much as we'd like to have strong connections with ALL of our students, sometimes they feel a stronger bond with other adults in the school. These connections should be fostered and encouraged by the classroom teacher if they are beneficial to the student. Ask your challenging student who they feel is a trusted adult in the school. Look for opportunities for the child to engage with that adult role model. This can be something as simple as letting them eat lunch one day a week with the trusted adult.